How to Navigate a Strained RelationshipOur differences don't have to keep us polarized. Try this expert advice for forging unexpected connections. Kalamazoo, Mich., musician and spiritual director Betsy Meagher, 76, felt anxious before her meeting with a Pennsylvania woman named Jodi.… Jan 05 22January 05, 2022Article at Experience Life
How to Build Community After a PandemicShortly after my family moved into our current home in 2010, my partner, Brian, decided to gather neighborhood musicians for an outdoor performance. Three families at the end of a nearby cul-de-sac offered their shared driveway as a performance… Sep 09 21September 09, 2021Article at Experience Life
Choose Your Own ReactionsTechnology has reshaped the way we process our feelings. This expert advice can help us navigate the digital emotional landscape more smoothly. When you find yourself at loose ends, do you reflexively reach for your phone? It’s a common habit, and… Jun 02 21June 02, 2021Article at Experience Life
3 Ways to Communicate More Assertively1. Learn to Say No Assertive communicators stand by their beliefs and feelings, even when they’re challenged. Though compromise is a vital element of healthy relationships, assertive communicators are clear on their reasoning and don’t give in to the… Mar 23 21March 23, 2021Article at Experience Life
The 4 Communication StylesWhen I was in seventh grade, my friends and I developed a pattern of sulking, almost on a monthly rotation. We’d take turns getting upset about something relatively minor — one friend wouldn’t call when she said she would, another would flirt with… Mar 04 21March 04, 2021Article at Experience Life
9 Tips for Better Time Management in RetirementAt age 59, Nancy A. Shenker changed her life. She gave away most of her belongings, moved to Arizona from New York, and began to focus on writing and public speaking in addition to the marketing consulting that had dominated her professional career.… Oct 14 20October 14, 2020Article at Kiplinger
When Not to SharePosting about your life on social media is now considered the norm — but there is some information that is best kept offline. Check out these tips on online etiquette. Amelia Vreeland discovered forest school when her son was a toddler. She loved the… Aug 27 20August 27, 2020Article at Experience Life
A teen's guide to managing your parents, relationships and coronavirus(CNN)Teens, this column is for you. You've been stuck at home with your parents for months now, unable to see any of your friends in person, at least not up close and personal like friends should be. Our current situation is a nightmare for most of… May 26 20May 26, 2020Article at CNN
Do’s and Don’ts Of GrandparentingEllen Miller, 71, gave her grandsons their first taste of ice cream. She didn’t think anything of it until she saw her daughter-in-law’s face drop after Miller returned home from the ice cream parlor with the boys. She immediately realized she’d… Mar 10 20March 10, 2020Article at Kiplinger
Teach Your Children to ‘Manage Up’How to arm kids with tools to deal with the difficult adults in their life Feb 24, 2020·5 min read Jump To Section Photo: Cavan Images/Getty Images When my son was in the third grade, he came home one day complaining about the school librarian. She… Feb 24 20February 24, 2020Article at Forge
Why Touch MattersIn his prime, my grandfather lived an active life, walking and swimming for hours every day. As he aged and suffered the loss of his wife, his experience of the physical world gradually narrowed. In his 90s, with his mobility increasingly limited,… Dec 03 19December 03, 2019Article at Experience Life
Coping With Grief During the Holidays“It’s the most wonderful time of the year,” the song tells us. But if you’re dealing with grief — namely the death of a loved one — the holiday season can become a barrage of painful reminders that your life isn’t what you had hoped. Surrounded by… Nov 21 19November 21, 2019Article at Experience Life
I Won’t Push My Kids to Follow My Path to HarvardI hope we will look back on the recent college admissions scandal involving actresses and coaches at exclusive colleges as the moment when overparenting hit its zenith and began a slide into obscurity. Parents across the Internet are aghast at the… Mar 13 19March 13, 2019Article at Parents
4 Ways to Find a HobbyWe all know people who pursue their passions single-mindedly, whether they’re mad for mahjong or devoted to dance. And those pastimes are much more than just pleasant diversions. Research shows that finding a hobby — an activity outside of your… Mar 11 19March 11, 2019Article at Experience Life
High school is overwhelming, for kids and parents. Here’s how to get off to a good start.The transition to high school is possibly the most fraught back-to-school season since kindergarten. Newly minted ninth-graders will be rubbing elbows with seniors who often tower a head above them. For the first time, grades really count. The… Aug 27 18August 27, 2018Article at Washington Post
Why Adults Can — and Should — Learn a Second LanguageLast year I took my husband on a birthday trip to Italy, where I’d long ago spent a single college semester. Hoping to excavate a few Italian phrases from the recesses of my brain, I downloaded some language-learning apps a couple of weeks before we… Jun 14 18June 14, 2018Article at Experience Life
The Latest Research on Disciplining Children Will Make You a Better Parent—and a Better SpouseFight disinformation. Get a daily recap of the facts that matter. Sign up for the free Mother Jones newsletter. Imagine, for a moment, that you are lying inside an MRI scanner. A giant plastic cylinder surrounds your head and shoulders, and the… Apr 17 18April 17, 2018Article at Mother Jones
America’s Youngest Workers May Be the Least Stable Generation On RecordCollege graduation is just around the corner, and many companies are gearing up to hire a fresh crop of future leaders in the coming months. But when executives take a close look at the youngest employees in the workforce, many are taken aback by the… Apr 28 16April 28, 2016Article at Fortune
Don’t let the Paris attacks infuse your parenting with fearWatching news reports of the 132 dead in the Paris terrorist attacks, it’s natural to feel a jolt of fear. At times like this, we parents must dig deep for the courage we need to lead our families confidently. We can’t parent from a place of fear, or… Nov 17 15November 17, 2015Article at Washington Post
Here’s how women can use ‘gender judo’ to get ahead at workA recent essay by Jennifer Lawrence on Hollywood’s gender pay gap has revived the discussion about women negotiating salary and navigating the business world with confidence. Lawrence wrote in Lena Dunham’s Lenny newsletter of her regret at failing… Oct 28 15October 28, 2015Article at Fortune