Drummer jokes got it wrong: Why drummers are smarter, healthier, and live longer lives
Despite having never been in a band or actually showing any real aptitude for playing the drums, I've always in some small way identified as a drummer. I got my first drum set when I was 16, with heavy metal dreams and a touch of teenage angst.…
Aug 29 21August 29, 2021
Article at Salon
My social life had always included alcohol. In the pandemic, I became a teetotaler.
Alcohol has always been a regular part of my social life. As a freelancer and mother of three who works from my home in the Netherlands, where neither my husband nor I have family, I have valued getting together to have a drink, celebrate,…
Jul 16 21July 16, 2021
Article at Washington Post
How working from home changed our kids’ perceptions of work
Years ago, a friend of mine, at the time a clothing designer for the snowboarding line of an athletic apparel company, was working from home. Her then 7-year-old-son saw her at her laptop, and asked what she was doing. She said she was working. “No,…
May 03 21May 03, 2021
Article at Washington Post
Sinterklaas and Zwarte Piet: Why a holiday has me talking to my kids about blackface
When my son was 5, I took him to see the World Press Photo exhibit. I’d taken him every year since he was a baby, but that year — 2015 — he was noticeably more cognizant of what he was seeing and had many more questions. The recipient of the World…
Dec 04 18December 04, 2018
Article at Washington Post
The Repeal of Ireland’s Abortion Ban Is the Latest Sign of a Cultural Shift
The Republic of Ireland has historically remained out of step with the vast majority of Europe when it comes to abortion. Although more than 80 percent of the Council of Europe’s 47 member states permit abortion without restriction at the request of…
Jun 01 18June 01, 2018
Article at World Politics Review
‘Only American Neurotics Think We’re Racist’: Debating Discrimination in the Netherlands
AMSTERDAM—Every second Saturday in November, according to Dutch folklore, Zwarte Piet, or Black Pete, arrives in the Netherlands, having traveled by steamboat with Sinterklaas, the Dutch version of Santa Claus, from their home in Spain. The duo…
Apr 03 18April 03, 2018
Article at World Politics Review
Reflections of a Motherless Mother
In the days after my first child was born, I was lost in him. I spent so many hours staring at his little features that when my husband returned from work each day, it seemed almost freakish how big his face was. What I most remember feeling for my…
Dec 06 17December 06, 2017
Article at s860571de0878469dbdce1b97d41f73b8
The Diminishing Role of Art in Children's Lives
“Ik ben ik”—I am me—was the classroom theme when my son started preschool in the Netherlands two years ago. He painted a portrait of himself, with exaggerated teeth only on the bottom row and three strands of wiry hair on his head (“hair is hard,” he…
Jul 05 17July 05, 2017
Article at The Atlantic
Sex with God as a donkey: What constitutes blasphemy today?
In 1966, Dutch writer Gerard Kornelis van het Reve was called before a judge in Amsterdam for violating his country’s anti-blasphemy law. Although it would take decades for the Netherlands to decriminalize blasphemy, the outcome of Reve’s case —…
May 20 17May 20, 2017
Article at Salon
Why We March: For Strength, Healing and Solidarity
It’s fair to say I did not respond to Donald Trump’s election with anything resembling grace. I was too optimistic. Naïve. I had organized a group of international women to meet on election night at a Mexican restaurant in my adopted city of Haarlem,…
Jan 18 17January 18, 2017
Article at Ms
Will Geert Wilders’ Rise Change the Face of the Netherlands?
Far-right Dutch politician Geert Wilders doesn’t hate Muslims—he just hates Islam, or so he said in 2008. And his feelings haven’t changed: In a television interview earlier this year to mark the 10th anniversary of the founding of Wilders’…
Nov 17 16November 17, 2016
Article at World Politics Review
Q&A: Erin Schrode, Youngest Person to Ever Run for Congress, Wants to Make an Impact
Erin Schrode is a community organizer and environmental activist from Marin County, California. At the age of 13, she cofounded Turning Green, a national non-profit organization devoted to education and advocacy around environmentally sustainable and…
Sep 13 16September 13, 2016
Article at Ms
Framing the masters: Behind the scenes of frame restoration and curation
It is early morning in Amsterdam’s Rijksmuseum. In a few hours, the corridors of this national gallery will be filled with thousands of visitors who flock daily to witness the works of Rembrandt, Vermeer and Van Gogh, among others. But, for now, the…
Jul 01 16July 01, 2016
Article at ArtAscent
The Netherlands' Upcoming Money-for-Nothing Experiment
In medieval myth, Cockaigne was a land of plenty, where work was outlawed, houses were made of pie and sausages, rivers of wine flowed, and ready-roasted geese and grilled fish followed villagers around, eager to be eaten. To the poor of the Middle…
Jun 21 16June 21, 2016
Article at The Atlantic













