when I was a young college student I was attracted to people that seemed like they had their life together they were social, had good grades, and walked confidently they were my role models and I got an ego boost whenever they acknowledged me I realized later that they too were broken internally like me,
and just needed a warm body to cry on at night . when I started working I became attracted to people that seemed very different than me. they grew up in a different background, were motivated, and handled stress with ease they made my fears and worries fade away whenever I spent time with them but I soon realized that everyone just wears an invisible costume to work,
and that I just fell in love with the images they wanted to be perceived as . now, I am attracted to people that will be a great parent figure to my future children they are soft, have a big heart, and see the world in a beautiful light they allow me to love myself through the process of loving them they are also not perfect, but they live with sincerity and at the end of the day,
honesty is the biggest favor we can ask someone