Want To See Your Therapist In-Person Mid-Pandemic? Think AgainResuming some version of normal life is incredibly appealing, especially for psychotherapy. Like I wrote about for the American Psychological Association (APA), what takes place on screens, while workable, is fundamentally different and more… Jun 27 20June 27, 2020Article at Forbes
What To Do If Your Therapy App Didn’t Help Your DepressionIf you’ve tried a therapy app to deal with depression and it hasn’t worked, relax. It’s likely them, not you. Don’t be discouraged. Help and healing are possible. I hope you’ll continue with your efforts to build a better life — just maybe not with a… Feb 01 20February 01, 2020Article at Forbes
How ‘Megxit’ Can Help Anyone Get UnstuckMeghan Markle had seemingly won life’s lottery. A commoner like the rest of us swept off her feet by the dashing Prince Harry, she had apparently scored the ticket for happily ever after. The fairytale come true. Then reality hit. They’re stepping… Jan 19 20January 19, 2020Article at Forbes
Don’t Be Fooled By The NY Times Correction, Bret Stephens’ Column Is Still RacistSorry Bret, you’re not off the hook. You still owe an explanation for how you ended up uncritically citing a discredited racist article in your “The Secrets of Jewish Genius.” Sure, you and your editor deleted that citation the next day. But the fact… Dec 30 19December 30, 2019Article at Forbes
The War For The Future Of PsychotherapyMaybe you heard. There’s a war brewing. At stake is the future of psychotherapy. Will manuals, algorithms, and automatons prevail? Or will we be able to preserve the centrality of unique and responsive human relationships? The fight will determine… Dec 27 19December 27, 2019Article at Forbes
Three Ways To Fight The Stigma Of Mental IllnessPeople struggling with mental illness, from the mildest and most routine to the intractable and utterly devastating, are also burdened by the stereotypes and prejudices of stigmatization. The stigma of mental illness interferes with getting needed… Jul 31 19July 31, 2019Article at Forbes
How Trump’s Military Parade Dishonors The Survivors And Victims Of 9/11One aspect of President Trump’s militarized photo-op takeover of the Washington DC July 4th celebration has not received enough attention. Lots of stories have reported that Trump’s tanks are unusual, controversial, a waste of money, a threat to… Jul 04 19July 04, 2019Article at Forbes
Why Exuberant Responses To The Barr Letter Show The Erosion Of The American MindTrump-world cheers, claiming total victory: We are the champions! The rest of you are liars and losers! What’s deeply troubling is if you actually read the Barr Letter those responses just don’t fit what the letter actually states. Sure, this could… Mar 25 19March 25, 2019Article at Forbes
The New Zealand Terror Attack Shows Our Ethics Lagging Way Behind Our TechnologyWe are failing. Collectively. Some more than others. When white nationalist terrorism struck New Zealand, after similar strikes in Norway, Pittsburgh and Charleston, it showed how we are failing to meet a central challenge posed by our… Mar 19 19March 19, 2019Article at Forbes
What To Expect From Psychotherapy On Screen: A Consumer's GuideIf you’re thinking about meeting with a psychotherapist remotely on screen, there’s something you should know: it’s not the same as meeting in person. Both the processes and the outcomes are different. Yes, it can help. But remote treatment and local… Feb 26 19February 26, 2019Article at Forbes
How To Make Remote Psychotherapy Work Better For You: A Consumer's GuideWith more people getting treatment on screen from a far-away psychotherapist, and more therapists offering such care, finding ways to manage the significant differences between remote and local therapy makes good sense. After all, gains in… Feb 26 19February 26, 2019Article at Forbes
Covington High Schoolers: If You Don't Want To Be Seen As Racist, Maybe Don't Wear A MAGA CapPolarized again. E pluribus duo! What a week. Viral videos of MAGA attired high school boys surround a chanting drum-beating Native American elder. The nation splits in two. Some go all in on Nicholas Sandmann being a good kid trying to defuse a… Jan 25 19January 25, 2019Article at Forbes
How Pelosi's 'No Wall' Triggers Trump's Dangerous NarcissismIs the government shutdown also kind of a #MeToo moment? Can thinking about it that way help us better understand what’s going on? It does seem to fit. Think about it. A narcissistic man with a history of sexual predation lashes out after being… Jan 06 19January 06, 2019Article at Forbes
Serious Problems With RCTs And EBTs Exposed By The Satirical 'Parachute Study'Randomized control trials (RCTs) are all the rage, at least among those with a vested interest in clinical research. They’re considered to be gold standard building blocks for empirically-based treatments (EBTs). Increasingly, insurance company… Dec 30 18December 30, 2018Article at Forbes
What Celluloid Shrinks Tell Us About Psychotherapy TodayWhen therapy and therapists appear in TV and movies it is not just entertainment. Those moving images can also help or harm efforts to undermine the stigma that still sticks to psychotherapy. Plus, they reveal culturally accepted attitudes that… Dec 26 18December 26, 2018Article at Forbes
How To Survive Holiday Eating? Be Mindful And Savor Every BiteThanksgiving is over. Turkey sandwiches happily gobbled up. The carcass is soup. Leftovers safely stored away. And you know what that means. We’re about to enter the high season for holiday eating: cookies and parties, feasts and chocolate, champagne… Nov 29 18November 29, 2018Article at Forbes
I'm A Shrink And Gun Violence Is My LaneI’m a shrink and the American epidemic of gun violence is my lane too. Don’t believe me? Suicide accounts for more than half of the more than 30,000 gun deaths a year. Yet I can’t do anything about an ex-cop’s guns when he starts to spiral into yet… Nov 25 18November 25, 2018Article at Forbes
How Trump's Use Of Nationalist And Anti-Globalist Speech Fueled The Pittsburgh MassacreLeaders should be held responsible for the consequences of their actions, especially when something terrible happens: you break it; you buy it. That's clear, isn't it? But so far, for many reasons, only one of which I’ll talk about here, President… Oct 31 18October 31, 2018Article at Forbes
How Trump's Psychology Of Hate Unleashed The MAGABomberMake no mistake, President Trump is responsible for the MAGABomber. Not directly like he told him to do it. But still fully responsible. I write that knowing that doing so increases the chances that the next Trumpian stirred-up by the president’s… Oct 26 18October 26, 2018Article at Forbes
Don't Believe Any Of The Reasons Not To Believe Dr. Blasey FordWho to believe? If she’s telling the truth then he was a hard-drinking frat-boy bro who sexually assaulted her and he has no place on the nation's highest court. If he’s telling the truth he’s a falsely accused white male denied due process by #MeToo… Sep 30 18September 30, 2018Article at Forbes