"All the Wrong Men and One Perfect Boy"At 35, my friend Spike (nee Jacqueline) Gillespie is only a couple of years older than I. We met more than a decade ago while we were both waitressing in Knoxville, Tenn., at a nightclub called Ella Gurus. For two years, we lived in the same… Aug 11 99August 11, 1999Article at Salon.com
Formula for disasterParents may reasonably ask why, with research demonstrating the many and serious potential health hazards of routine bottle-feeding, do so many otherwise competent doctors continue to take a neutral or even pro-formula stance with their patients? As… Jul 20 99July 20, 1999Article at Salon.com
Formula for disasterWhen Tabitha Walrond's 7-week-old infant died of starvation last year, the fact that this young New York mother had attempted to breast-feed her baby -- albeit with obvious lack of success -- was widely blamed for the complex and haunting tragedy.… Jul 19 99July 19, 1999Article at Salon.com
Tales of a reluctant parenting punditI was having one of those infamous Very Hard Mommy Days, the kind that entail crabby kids, messy arts-and-crafts projects and rainy weather. Elbow deep in roll-on glue and glitter, my young children created refrigerator-door masterpieces with… Jun 09 99June 09, 1999Article at Salon.com
The midwife of modern midwiferyWith her long, graying hair, often in braids, and her flashback '60s clothes, Ina May Gaskin isn't as glamorous as many other pregnancy and childbirth "experts" seen frequently on television and in the glossy parenting magazines. Instead, Gaskin… Jun 01 99June 01, 1999Article at Salon.com
Getting wise to 'Babywise'Lori Rivas finds it painful to think back to the first few months after her 2-year-old son Daniel's birth. Rivas, a 29-year-old stay-at-home mother from Santa Clarita, Calif., remembers days and nights of struggling to ignore her baby's crying, of… Aug 06 98August 06, 1998Article at Salon.com